Hogwarts, this professor is too stable.

"Hermione, I have also gone through such a difficult period. I have cried, laughed, been depressed, hesitated, excited, and moved. I understand the confusion of being a freshman at Hogwarts from the Muggle world. and needs. As someone who has been here, the first thing I want to tell you is that Gryffindor is not a bad choice. Our principal, Mr. Dumbledore, graduated from there. Who would think that Dumbledore is not enough? What about excellence? No one in this era dares to make such wild claims."

Mochir placed the heated French vanilla on the table in front of Hermione.

A faint fragrance filled the room, making Hermione feel a little long-lost warmth in her heart, "Professor, what should I do?"

"It's time for you to grow up, Hermione."

"Professor, what is growth?"

Moqier was not in a hurry to give the answer, but narrated in a calm tone, "Let me teach you two tricks. The first trick is to recall the past self. The self recorded in the previous diary may have been worn away by time. Basically, you can’t see clearly, but it is still vaguely discernible and traceable. You can look at your past self and see what you have. The second method is to seek newness, that is, to find a new direction and determine the new self. During the days when you come to Hogwarts, you should have understood some of the rules of this world and see what you don't have. But no matter what, you must remember that no matter who you are, you must not belittle yourself. You are unique from the moment you are conceived, and there will never be another you in the world. There is something in you that cannot be replaced by others. So, you must have something, and of course, you must not have something... "

This is a skill Mochir learned from his mentor in his previous life. When discussing an open topic, even if he has a standard answer, he must leave it until the end. This is not because of the "Riddler" attribute, but because even if it is The standard answer only solves one aspect of the problem, just like a water glass. You may see one aspect clearly, but the other side is still shrouded in shadow.

Let others think freely and complement each other. This is the best state of teaching and learning.

"I kind of understand..." Hermione lowered her head and thought about the time carefully for a moment, "Professor, it's about growing up. I discovered that there are all kinds of people in this world. When I can face them with an open mind, If I don’t think about forcing someone to change, I will have something I didn’t have before.”

Mochir nodded in affirmation. The biggest problem facing Hermione now is interpersonal relationships. She always likes to demand others according to her own standards. When she sees something that is not in line with her own wishes, she will strongly demand the people around her. Just do what she wants.

So the side of the cup that Hermione first thought of was this, about the growth of interpersonal relationships.

"Yes, as we just said, growth is a process of constantly understanding yourself. Only if you recognize yourself clearly, and set yourself one small goal after another that can be achieved in the short term and the ultimate grand ideal, That’s what growing up means.”

Mochir followed Hermione's words and just said a little bit about his understanding of the fables of growth that he had read in the Muggle mind books.

There are four points of growth introduced in that book: first, the process of constantly understanding oneself (one who knows oneself will understand); second, the process of constantly being responsible (taking responsibility); third, learning to truly understand and respect ( The world is colorful, but it is not black and white); fourth, learn not to blindly follow your own opinions (after experiencing wind and rain, you will still see the world with clear eyes).

But these words seem too pale and feeble. People can only understand these fables of growth after they have truly reached a certain stage and experienced something.

"Professor, how do you think I should get along with them?"

This is a good sign, which means that Hermione no longer complains about the irreversible fact that she was "sorted into the wrong house", but has begun to learn to face reality and face difficulties.

Mr. Cha once said: "Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and where there are rivers and lakes, there are grievances and hatreds."

Therefore, wherever there are people, there are always endless stories to tell.

Interpersonal communication is an old topic. In the process of interacting with people, the first impression is very important. It is likely to be your lifelong impression in other people's minds.

Hermione's biggest problem now is that the first impression she gives others is too bad.

In the original book, if it hadn't been for the troll incident, Ron and Harry might have still evaluated Hermione as "that little girl who was arrogant on the train and bossed others around."

But Moqier obviously couldn't say these things directly. He needed to use a gentle way of saying, "Hermione, I suggest you not to draw conclusions for yourself and others. This is very important. What you see, what you hear The possibility is only one-sided, and it’s not worth losing a possible friend just because of this.”

"Can you explain further?"

"Of course." Moqier replied, "What I mean is that our understanding of the world is always accompanied by basic emotions. These emotions may be innate, just like the three primary colors of red, yellow and blue, which are important to all human beings. It's the same for babies. But after experiencing various influences from society, family, growth environment, etc., that is, when we begin to develop as individuals, our emotions and reactions become more and more individual. Color, just like several primary colors mixed together to create a variety of subtle tones and color differences. You may be a passionate red spectrum and like to dye others the same color as you, but of course there are also stubborn blues Color, they don’t want to change their color because of you. Is that understandable?”

"Yes," Hermione said, "I can understand!"

"Very good," Mochir asked. "What color do you think Harry Potter is?"

Hermione frowned and scratched her fluffy hair, but she pondered for a long time and still couldn't answer.

"It seems like you don't know him well."

Hearing this sentence, Hermione felt a little uncomfortable. She had read every book about Harry Potter before the start of school. She knew a lot, even Harry himself didn't know anything.

But when Mochir asked about Harry Potter, he was not the modern savior of the wizarding world in the book, but the real one, living beside him, having classes with him in the same classroom every day, and resting in the same common room. Harry Potter, Hermione found that she did not understand the real Harry Potter.

"So why not give it a try and find out? We can talk again next week and I think we can share something new and more interesting."

What? Why not talk about Ron Weasley? The cp that Mochir bumped into when reading novels in his previous life was Haha...

Seeing Hermione's hard-thinking expression, Mochir smiled and said, "We'd better stop here today and go back to finish our homework."

Having said this, Moqier felt that he needed to go see Jack. It was a sword that he wanted to hone. If it is too strong, it will break easily, but if it is too soft, it will become weak.

The child cannot be allowed to suffer setbacks, and of course, he cannot be allowed to suffer unbearable suffering.

It is not necessarily an adult who can take responsibility, but a real adult must be able to take on his own responsibilities.

Not only Jack, but Mochir felt that he needed to understand the current situation of the several young wizards he welcomed into the magical world.

The day Moqil appeared in the lives of those children, he assumed part of the responsibility for these children, although this responsibility was not as heavy as their parents...